Prayers is one of five promises that members of McPherson First make: prayers, presence, gifts, service, and witness. The five practices below are doorways into a life of prayer. They come from twenty centuries of Christian tradition and John Wesley's own way of forming Methodists in the eighteenth century. Whoever you are, long-time member, first-time visitor, or someone still figuring out what you believe, you're welcome to try any of them.

Prayers means daily conversation with God that shapes how you live. Christian tradition has practiced prayer in countless forms across two thousand years: silent and spoken, written and sung, alone and together. The common thread is that prayer is not primarily about getting God's attention or extracting answers. It is about staying connected. Prayer is how you keep the relationship that defines you alive across the ordinary days.

Some of these practices are ancient, like Lectio Divina and the Examen. Some are simple enough to do in line at the grocery store. None require special expertise or unusual time. Try one. Notice what changes. Bring what you discover to a Grace Group or a friend who knows you well.

Lectio Divina

Lectio Divina is Latin for "sacred reading," a centuries-old way of reading the Bible as conversation rather than information. The practice has four movements: read a short passage slowly, reflect on what stands out, respond to God in prayer, and rest in silence. Eight to ten minutes is enough.

Ways to try it:

  • Start with a short, familiar passage like Psalm 23 or Matthew 6:25-34
  • Try it first thing in the morning before checking your phone
  • Read aloud if you tend to skim
  • Keep a journal nearby and write down the word that stands out
  • Try it with your spouse, a friend, or a Grace Group

For your Grace Group: Share one word or phrase from your reading this week and what it stirred up.

Scripture: Psalm 119:105
Wesleyan means of grace: Searching the scriptures (instituted), a Work of Piety

The Examen

The Examen is a five-minute prayer at the end of the day that helps you notice where God showed up. It comes from Ignatius of Loyola in the 1500s and has been used by Christians ever since. The point is not to grade your day but to recognize how God was present in it.

Ways to try it:

  • Walk through five steps: pause, give thanks for one gift, review the day, name what you wish had gone differently, hand tomorrow to God
  • Pray it before bed as part of winding down
  • Pray it with your spouse or family at the dinner table
  • Use it on a particular relationship, project, or season instead of just the day
  • Keep a one-line journal of the gift you noticed each day

For your Grace Group: Share one moment from this week when you sensed God close, and one moment you felt far away.

Scripture: Lamentations 3:22-23
Wesleyan means of grace: Prayer (instituted), a Work of Piety

Breath Prayer

Breath prayer is a short, repeatable prayer paired with breathing. It's especially useful when words feel like too much: in anxiety, grief, anger, or the middle of the night. You pick a two-part phrase and breathe in on the first half, out on the second.

Ways to try it:

  • "Lord Jesus Christ" / "have mercy on me"
  • "Be still" / "and know that I am God"
  • "Speak, Lord" / "your servant is listening"
  • Pray it in the car before a hard conversation
  • Pray it when you wake up at 3 a.m. and can't get back to sleep

For your Grace Group: Share the phrase you've been praying this week and where it has met you.

Scripture: Psalm 46:10
Wesleyan means of grace: Prayer (instituted), a Work of Piety

Praying the Psalms

The Psalms are the prayer book Jesus used. Every kind of human emotion appears there: joy, grief, rage, gratitude, doubt, exhaustion, hope. When you pray the Psalms, you join the prayers of God's people across thousands of years and find words for what your own heart can't quite say.

Ways to try it:

  • Pray one Psalm a day in order; you'll finish all 150 in five months
  • Start with short, accessible Psalms like 8, 23, 100, 121, or 139
  • Read aloud, slowly, as if the words are coming from your own heart
  • Where the Psalm matches what you feel, let it carry your prayer; where it names what you don't feel, pray it for someone who does
  • Pray a Psalm at the same time as someone else and compare notes

For your Grace Group: Share which Psalm you prayed this week and what part of it stayed with you.

Scripture: Psalm 1
Wesleyan means of grace: Prayer and searching the scriptures (instituted), a Work of Piety

Fasting

Fasting is saying no to something in order to say a deeper yes to God. Most often it means food, but it can also mean social media, alcohol, sweets, or screens. Fasting is not a hunger strike against God or a way to earn God's favor. It is a way of letting your body teach your soul that God is your truest hunger.

Ways to try it:

  • Skip one meal on a Friday and pray during that hour
  • Take a 24-hour fast from social media
  • Give up one comfort for a season; Lent is the traditional time
  • Pair the fast with prayer and give what you save to feed someone else
  • Talk to a doctor first if you have health concerns

For your Grace Group: Share what you set aside this week and what surfaced when you did.

Scripture: Matthew 6:16-18
Wesleyan means of grace: Fasting (instituted), a Work of Piety

Continue Exploring the Practices

This is one of five sets of practices at McPherson First, each tied to one of the membership promises.

  • Prayers (you're here)
  • Presence: showing up to worship, communion, Sabbath, Grace Groups, and others
  • Gifts: giving financially in trust and joy
  • Service: finding where you're called to serve
  • Witness: sharing your faith through words and actions

The most fruitful way to walk these practices is in a Grace Group, a small group of six to ten people meeting weekly for a season. Grace Groups walk the practices together, share what's stirring, and pray for each other through the week.